Am
sharing here the discussion that happened between me and my friend
,Santosh, when I had sent the following message to my friends group in
wats app.
"If I've Curves,,,,I'm Fat,,,,,,,,,
If I Don't Then I'm Flat,,,,,,,,,
If I wear Makeup,,,,,I'm fake,😯
If I don't,,,,,I'm A Behenji,,,,,,,,
If I Dress Up, I'm A Show Off🙍
If I Don't bother,,,,,,,, I Am A
Villager,,,,,,😶
If I Say What I Think,,, I'm A
Bitch.,,,,,😬
If I Say Nothing,,,,,,I
Have '' Attitude Problem. ''😐
If I Cry Sometimes,,,,,,I'm A
DRAMA QUEEN,,,,,,,,,
If I Dont, I' m Emotionless,,,😶,
If I Have
Guy Friends,,,,I'm A Cheapo,,,,
If I Don't,,,I'm Narrow Minded
If I Stand Up For Myself,,,,,I'm Mouthy........!! 😈
If I don't then I'm dumb 🙉
It's like Women Cannot Do
Anything 😦😕😑 these days without
Being Tagged.......!!!
So Why Bother,,,,,,,, !!😬
Don't Give A Damn,,,,,,,!
Enjoy your life in the way u want!
😀
Forward this to every pretty woman in your list
WOMEN ROCK ''
This was the forward and below goes the discussion between me and Santosh.
Santosh :U want equality or women rock huh?
Y do u seperate urself frm humanity.. Except for physical appearance v r all created to b equal.. Stop spreading such thoughts which defines u only "women". Is it all u r?.. U want ppl to appreciate u coz u did inspite bein woman or coz u actually did it..
Don take it hard.. Just a thought
Me :Well said santosh ... But I would like to express my opinon on this issue. I strongly believe men and women are not equal. Expecting them to be equal is not correct either but ya,equal rights and equal opprtunity should be given to men and women. What they make of those rights and opportunity depends on their indiviual interst.
Speaking about the forward that I sent. Women have a tendency to worry and bother alot about what the world or society the comments on her every action. You might have observed women tend to worry more than any man does. This forward was just to remind all the gals that they need not worry about wat others think and to enjoy themselves the way they are
Santosh :Seriously?.. R u running a women moment... Feminist..
How does this different frm a seperatist claimin.. He s proud to b Muslim or hindu or watevr..
U r taking a damn genetic accident damn too seriously..
N fr society.. Its u who constitutes society..
Me :The whole big world is well -balanced bcoz of this damn genetic accident.
You cannot expect the father to take care of the baby like a mother does.
Santosh : Y can't.. U can't question the capability of a person its infinite..
Me :Do you treat your mother and father equally at home. Am sure ,you will feel more comfortable in sharing some issues with Mom and some other stuffs with father better. Bcoz woman and father think differently. Mother /Women is more emotional and father is comparitively practical.
Santosh :oh my God!! Stop.. U sud stop working n start taking care of ur kitchen.. Coz this s a mans work.. Women r nt allowed come out
Me :I am not sure about capabilities. But am sure about priorities a women has....... And to support my argument I request you to look into high school biology text books where you will get to know our thinking and behavior is highly influenced by our hormones. bcoz of genetic accident the hormones are different and thinking /behaviour is different.
Santosh : oh my God. Please stop it. (With frustrated smiley)
Me : how can I stop without convincing you that women and men are different. If they were meant to be same, God would not have created men and women at all.The world would have been filled with only men or only women. However ,I dont mean to say women are different species . Its just their requirements and feelings are little different from men and men need to understand it .Accordingly , respect it .
Finally, I would like to remind you about my earlier mentioned point that equal oppurtunity should be given to both men and women. One should not forget ,women is a human being too. Its completely her choice to decide what she makes of the oppurtunities.
------------Conversation ends -----
The purpose behind writing this in my blog is to express my thoughts to all boys who think like Santosh and to gals who are still confused about equality.
---Amruta and Santosh
"If I've Curves,,,,I'm Fat,,,,,,,,,
If I Don't Then I'm Flat,,,,,,,,,
If I wear Makeup,,,,,I'm fake,😯
If I don't,,,,,I'm A Behenji,,,,,,,,
If I Dress Up, I'm A Show Off🙍
If I Don't bother,,,,,,,, I Am A
Villager,,,,,,😶
If I Say What I Think,,, I'm A
Bitch.,,,,,😬
If I Say Nothing,,,,,,I
Have '' Attitude Problem. ''😐
If I Cry Sometimes,,,,,,I'm A
DRAMA QUEEN,,,,,,,,,
If I Dont, I' m Emotionless,,,😶,
If I Have
Guy Friends,,,,I'm A Cheapo,,,,
If I Don't,,,I'm Narrow Minded
If I Stand Up For Myself,,,,,I'm Mouthy........!! 😈
If I don't then I'm dumb 🙉
It's like Women Cannot Do
Anything 😦😕😑 these days without
Being Tagged.......!!!
So Why Bother,,,,,,,, !!😬
Don't Give A Damn,,,,,,,!
Enjoy your life in the way u want!
😀
Forward this to every pretty woman in your list
WOMEN ROCK ''
This was the forward and below goes the discussion between me and Santosh.
Santosh :U want equality or women rock huh?
Y do u seperate urself frm humanity.. Except for physical appearance v r all created to b equal.. Stop spreading such thoughts which defines u only "women". Is it all u r?.. U want ppl to appreciate u coz u did inspite bein woman or coz u actually did it..
Don take it hard.. Just a thought
Me :Well said santosh ... But I would like to express my opinon on this issue. I strongly believe men and women are not equal. Expecting them to be equal is not correct either but ya,equal rights and equal opprtunity should be given to men and women. What they make of those rights and opportunity depends on their indiviual interst.
Speaking about the forward that I sent. Women have a tendency to worry and bother alot about what the world or society the comments on her every action. You might have observed women tend to worry more than any man does. This forward was just to remind all the gals that they need not worry about wat others think and to enjoy themselves the way they are
Santosh :Seriously?.. R u running a women moment... Feminist..
How does this different frm a seperatist claimin.. He s proud to b Muslim or hindu or watevr..
U r taking a damn genetic accident damn too seriously..
N fr society.. Its u who constitutes society..
Me :The whole big world is well -balanced bcoz of this damn genetic accident.
You cannot expect the father to take care of the baby like a mother does.
Santosh : Y can't.. U can't question the capability of a person its infinite..
Me :Do you treat your mother and father equally at home. Am sure ,you will feel more comfortable in sharing some issues with Mom and some other stuffs with father better. Bcoz woman and father think differently. Mother /Women is more emotional and father is comparitively practical.
Santosh :oh my God!! Stop.. U sud stop working n start taking care of ur kitchen.. Coz this s a mans work.. Women r nt allowed come out
Me :I am not sure about capabilities. But am sure about priorities a women has....... And to support my argument I request you to look into high school biology text books where you will get to know our thinking and behavior is highly influenced by our hormones. bcoz of genetic accident the hormones are different and thinking /behaviour is different.
Santosh : oh my God. Please stop it. (With frustrated smiley)
Me : how can I stop without convincing you that women and men are different. If they were meant to be same, God would not have created men and women at all.The world would have been filled with only men or only women. However ,I dont mean to say women are different species . Its just their requirements and feelings are little different from men and men need to understand it .Accordingly , respect it .
Finally, I would like to remind you about my earlier mentioned point that equal oppurtunity should be given to both men and women. One should not forget ,women is a human being too. Its completely her choice to decide what she makes of the oppurtunities.
------------Conversation ends -----
The purpose behind writing this in my blog is to express my thoughts to all boys who think like Santosh and to gals who are still confused about equality.
---Amruta and Santosh
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